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Thursday, June 15, 2006

My Perfect Lover

Haha, I got tagged by Huey Teng. Argh, I should be studying for my exam. Heck.

Here are the rules:

Let's see. I have to describe my ideal lover with 8 points, no specific order to it. Naturally, everyone knows what an ideal lover is. Those general traits like loyalty, sincerity, charming, drop-dead gorgeous (tee hee, this is every girls dream), and oh yes - count in the good performance in bed too (akkakkak kakakak) ...

Since I have been dating someone for the past 7 months, I will list down the 8 points he has being my sweetest love. I do believe no one is 100% perfect, and so this is just going to be 8 points about him being my love. I want to say he is the love of my life but well, I'm still young and all ... who knows he might not even be my life partner in the future.

Obviously, he is male. I am straight (you all should know that). Yeah, I have this infinite amount of attraction for the male species (and it's not because they have a penis).

He stole my heart because ...

1. He has a unique sense of humour
I don't know how he does it, but he really makes my heart smile. I can spend a whole day with him without feeling bored. Witty, intelligent, and silly at times. It's interesting to see how he maintains a cool composure in front of his friends, but when with me and my girlfriends he becomes the comedian (sometimes he shows his feminine side too, which is always interesting). Well, I don't mean he is a clown. He is just unique and no one feels bored around him. There's always something funny to tease or talk about. And it makes not only me but everyone else around him happy. Most importantly, he still is himself. There is no shadow behind him that I cannot see.

2. He is a friend in all ways
Besides sharing all the intimacy with him, I can share with him all my worries, my thoughts, and my desires. Of course, sometimes he can be a little too analytical. At times, he upsets me because we don't agree eye to eye on things but with his strength and my faults, I feel that I am growing to be a better person. I have learnt to become less sensitive to emotions (hey, I am a girl). He has learnt to be more generous, caring, and mature (yeah, guys sometimes are still immature in their thoughts). He is a friend too. And that is what makes us share the most together.

3. He is intelligent
This is one of the general attractions that girls tend to fall for. Then again, there are different categories of intelligence. He isn't the studious type. But he is innovative and creative. He only gets good grades for the subjects that he finds interesting. These people are picky and lazy but smart. He is more street-smart than I am. I just find it safe to be with a guy who knows what he is doing and what is happening around the block. Haha, I find it sexy :)

4. He treats me like a woman
Now, this is very important to me. If a guy doesn't know how to treat a lady like a lady ... he's out of the game. Even if I am an independent woman, I am still a woman who needs that attention. It can be very small details like, opening the car door for you, protecting you from the cold wind by letting you hide behind him, insisting on carrying your shopping bags even if it weighs like a feather ... to bigger details like showering you with gifts and paying for your food. Of course, it might be annoying if it gets too excessive. But he catches me by surprise all the time. That's how he is. And hopefully, he doesn't stop doing it :)

5. He appreciates me
If ever a guy wants to win a girl's heart, he has to appreciate what the girl does for him. Cooking a meal, sharing an opinion, lending a listening ear. He shows that he appreciates it although he will insist that I shouldn't trouble myself like that. That is very gentleman-like. I have met guys who are just so egoistical that they think that it's silly to share their problems with the girlfriend. I hate that part of the ego in a man.

6. He is the new-age guy
I've had bad experiences with guys who are too old-fashioned. He has to be open-minded now in this current age. If not, it will be difficult times when we have to make decisions, agreements ... our thoughts just won't coincide (at least some).

7. He knows who I am
If there is anything a girl should know that the guy is sincere, it should be his reasons for loving you this much. Perhaps it is not true enough by words only. They say action speaks louder than words but only time can tell all these. He should also know my positive and negative traits. If he can read me like a book, I might feel intimidated but at least I know that he is sincere in getting to know me better and love me for who I am.

8. He has a deep voice and a way with words
Let's just say that ... it's sexy. It makes my legs go weak. And I always want to hear his voice. Even if it was just going ot be 5 minutes on the phone. It is natural to question the sincerity of a sweet talker. But I must say, his sweet words are not too high of sugar. It is just right. Either way, I always end up getting something better in the end after those sweet, sweet flatterings (tee hee hee).

Okay, I feel like I just wrote a book about him. So, time to tag.

Wayne

Li Shun

Ams

Chiak Lung

Brenda

Okay, I can only tag 5 people ... hahaha... enjoy!

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